When I was a girl there were comedians who had sticking out teeth and that was part of their attraction. They took what they had been given and made it an asset. There was a Welshman called Griffiths I think, a character actor, he had protruding teeth. There was Ken Dodd complete with teeth and sticking up hair. Now all the children are whisked off to the orthodontist and made to look ordinary. Everybody has to conform to someone else's idea of normality. So now we have designer children. I saw a little girl of about five yesterday and thought what lovely gentle red hair she had and then I realized she had highlights!! Fancy paying out good money to treat a child like a model. Also is there not a message there telling the child that she needs changing to be good enough. Someone pulling the strings of society wants us to conform.
There are two main types of depression, reactive, which is a reaction to your circumstances and endogenous, which is a part of your makeup and not entirely affected by your circumstances. I get the second type. When I am depressed I like to sleep a lot, this is probably not a good thing as depression can lift if you do not have extra sleep. It is all very well knowing that , but acting upon it is another thing. Exercise is also beneficial. Some sorts of depression can be lifted by taking these measures, but some people need medication. You need to get to know your doctor and develope a relationship with him/her where you feel you can trust their judgement. Do look for help as there are lots of possibilities out there. It is not good to spend long stretches of time on your own. Talking with other people will often help lift your spirits, especially if they are people who have gone through this experience themselves. Maybe you need to join a self help group. Avoid people who tell...
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