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Will you take the risk?

If you have lost your partner in life, been bereaved, will you take the risk of finding another partner. Are the benefits of a new relationship attractive to you , or are you afraid to lose again? Life is full of such risks, but can you afford to miss out because you are afraid of loss coming again? It is a difficult decision to make and maybe you won't even get the chance. There is not a suitable partner just around the corner for everyone. You may have to settle for a life alone. This has its benefits. You are not likely to argue with yourself. Do you want a life of peace which sometimes feels lonely, or do you want to risk friction because you would like company? There, and you thought life would get easier as you grew older. Read below in My Poems of Loss about losing a partner and being alone.

Poems of Loss
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