When we lose a loved one it is natural to wonder how they are faring in the next life. I would warn against going to a medium to find out. At worst these people are charlatans after your money, the rest misguided or worse. We are told in the Bible not to try to reach the dead. The best person to call on in this situation is Jesus. That's right, go to the top. He is always available through prayer and doesn't make a charge. All he requires is that you look for him with all your heart. He has the answers to all of life's difficult questions.
There are two main types of depression, reactive, which is a reaction to your circumstances and endogenous, which is a part of your makeup and not entirely affected by your circumstances. I get the second type. When I am depressed I like to sleep a lot, this is probably not a good thing as depression can lift if you do not have extra sleep. It is all very well knowing that , but acting upon it is another thing. Exercise is also beneficial. Some sorts of depression can be lifted by taking these measures, but some people need medication. You need to get to know your doctor and develope a relationship with him/her where you feel you can trust their judgement. Do look for help as there are lots of possibilities out there. It is not good to spend long stretches of time on your own. Talking with other people will often help lift your spirits, especially if they are people who have gone through this experience themselves. Maybe you need to join a self help group. Avoid people who tell...
Liz,
ReplyDeleteYou are misinformed. True, there are many charlatans out there posing as mediums, but there are some true mediums. Jesus was the greatest of mediums. What the Bible warns against is speaking with the "spiritually dead," which referred to earthbound or low-level spirits. In the translation from Greek to English, the word came out "dead" only. There are spirits who are not earthbound. Most of the Bible is based on mediumship of one kind or another. Moses getting the 10 Commandments was by means of direct-writing mediumship.
Forgot to mention above that in John, we are told to "test the spirits" to determine whether they are of God. How can we test them and discern the messages if we don't listen to them in the first place?
ReplyDeleteGood to hear your views Michael. It gets a bit lonely here on the internet sometimes. Nice to know there is someone there. I think the whole purpose of dying is to have finished with this life and therefore the worst thing one can do is to disturb the dead. We have had plenty of time to learn from them while they were here, and plenty of memories too.
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ReplyDeleteThey are not "disturbed." Many of them are around us and assisting us. Most of them are very frustrated that we ignore them and do not take their help. Of course, there are many "spiritually dead" or earthbound spirits trying to influence us in a negative way. That's where "testing the spirits" and "discernment" come into play. The "disturbing the dead" approach sounds like some evangelical teaching based on a literal interpretation of the Bible. So much of the Bible has been distorted by religious fundamentalists who fear that their authority will be usurped by more intelligent interpretations.
I expect we will just have to accept that we disagree Michael. Of course there are charlatans in the "christian" church too. You are right there, sadly. Thank you for dropping by with your comments.
ReplyDeleteI think I am with you on this Liz.
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