When you are waiting for someone to come and they are late,
just get involved in something that makes it difficult for you to answer the
door, or at least not wanting to answer the door. That’s what I am doing now, getting myself
involved in writing a blog. I’m waiting
for the Tesco delivery which should have been here between nine and ten p.m.
and it’s now ten thirty. Of course I can
stop and answer the door. I suppose
really I ought to go to the toilet and then for sure the bell would go just as I
had reached that point of no return. Do
you shout and scream at the delivery man when this happens to you? I don’t.
After all it’s a pretty thankless task, on the minimum wage. There are so many pitfalls like diversions on
the country lanes where it is so difficult to find one’s way. I do know there is a hole in the road on our
chief lane. I expect that is the problem
tonight. When it gets to ten forty-five I will ring the office if I still don’t
have my delivery. Of course I won’t
starve. As my daughter would say, “You’ve
got a first world problem.” No I won’t starve. The last time this happened the
worst I did to the young man who delivered was to give him a small book about
Jesus, well it was close to Christmas. I
wonder what he did with it.
There are two main types of depression, reactive, which is a reaction to your circumstances and endogenous, which is a part of your makeup and not entirely affected by your circumstances. I get the second type. When I am depressed I like to sleep a lot, this is probably not a good thing as depression can lift if you do not have extra sleep. It is all very well knowing that , but acting upon it is another thing. Exercise is also beneficial. Some sorts of depression can be lifted by taking these measures, but some people need medication. You need to get to know your doctor and develope a relationship with him/her where you feel you can trust their judgement. Do look for help as there are lots of possibilities out there. It is not good to spend long stretches of time on your own. Talking with other people will often help lift your spirits, especially if they are people who have gone through this experience themselves. Maybe you need to join a self help group. Avoid people who tell...
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