So what do you do, when you need to take the pews out of your church building, in order to make the place usable for more people in the village and you have two elderly people who are adamant that the pews should stay? The majority think they should go, the pews that is!It looks as if we have to say,"Sorry but they are going" and risk losing two members. I suppose that is their choice. The pews are standing in the way of progress. We have a pre-school which could do with extra space. They are our outreach and should be encouraged.
There are two main types of depression, reactive, which is a reaction to your circumstances and endogenous, which is a part of your makeup and not entirely affected by your circumstances. I get the second type. When I am depressed I like to sleep a lot, this is probably not a good thing as depression can lift if you do not have extra sleep. It is all very well knowing that , but acting upon it is another thing. Exercise is also beneficial. Some sorts of depression can be lifted by taking these measures, but some people need medication. You need to get to know your doctor and develope a relationship with him/her where you feel you can trust their judgement. Do look for help as there are lots of possibilities out there. It is not good to spend long stretches of time on your own. Talking with other people will often help lift your spirits, especially if they are people who have gone through this experience themselves. Maybe you need to join a self help group. Avoid people who tell...
Go for it. Take a risk of losing two elderly members and get the Mums and kids through the door. From my experience a playgroup is the best form of friendship evangelism.
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